Believe them.

When people show you who they are… believe them!! Don’t try to reason actions, or imagine justifications for wrong doings… just believe them. It’s who they are. Even if there is a good side to everybody, it is what guided reality that matters. It is a blessing and a curse to always see the best in people. But we really mustn’t try to find what isn’t ready to come out. We are not fairy godmothers for the people in our lives…. we have to let them be who they believe they are, not who we believe they can be. And so…. when people show you who they are, believe them the first time. Don’t sugar coat it, don’t believe they can be better, don’t try to change them into something else… just believe them, smile and then decide if it’s something you want in your life or not. If not, walk away. It might not be easy, but it’s pretty simple.

 

 

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