There are things that happen that shape our lives forever. But are they there for a reason? Or are they just another random event? It’s strange to think about it, because it is difficult to accept that we simply do not have the answer. It is easier, not to wonder about it at all. But life always has its own plans… and even though we might wish for numbness and indifference, it keeps nudging us awake, until finally, we learn to listen.